A Few Basics: Dildos & Vibrators

Lets take today to talk about some of the different types of adult toys. You can find nearly anything you can imagine in a sex toy but we will be covering some of the basics now. Keep in mind that finding the right toy for you is all about your own personal preference. What your best friend likes may not be right for you, so try to keep an open mind and don't be afraid of a little experimentation. You may surprise yourself!!! There are a few safety "rules" to keep in mind when enjoying your toys and it is good practice to make them a part of your playtime routine. Inspect your toy before each use. Check for any signs of wear like cuts or cracks where the toy may be hard to clean or harbor bacteria. If your toy has cracked or cut then please discontinue use. Clean your toy after EVERY use. A clean toy is a happy toy!!! Some toys are dishwasher safe (top rack) or can be cleaned with soap and water. There are even toy cleaners on the market for convenience. Just spray on, wait a few moments, and wipe clean.

Dildos

Dildos are basically a phallic object meant to be inserted vaginally, anally, orally, or a combination of them or even used to stroke the clitoris. A Dildo can be made of any number of materials and sole purpose is penetration and stroking. Many popular models of dildos are imitations of a real penis, some even complete with realistic veins and a life-like feel. Dildos offer the greatest amount of control allowing you to determine thrusting speed, motion, depth, angle, and any other inspired ideas. Depending on the size of the dildo it can be used to imitate oral play, can be carefully inserted into the anus while engaging in anal play, or used in the place of a real penis for solo play or during intimate moments with your partner. Speaking of partner play, Guys don't be intimidated by a dildo in your bed because you can have just as much fun with this toy as she does!!! You can use it to play with her or watch her play with herself. It may even open up a whole new horizon in your love life.  Dildos can cost anywhere from under $20 to several hundreds of dollars based on the material used, shape, and size. While more expensive does not directly indicate that it is a "better" toy keep in mind that a quality toy that will last a lifetime is not going to be cheap. Don't be afraid to invest in a quality toy that will bring you and your partner pleasure for a long time to come because I assure you that you will appreciate the investment.

Dildos come in a variety of shapes, colors, materials, and sizes. The key is to find what gets YOU going.

Vibrators

A vibrator is any toy with electrical or mechanical device used to massage or arouse. If it takes batteries or plugs into a wall, its a vibrator. Like dildos, vibrators come in a myriad of colors, shapes, textures, and many have multiple functions. External stimulation, internal stimulation, or a combination of both, there is a vibrator to fit your needs-you just have to find it. Many women find that a vibrator will help them achieve a much more intense orgasm than they may experience with intercourse or manual stimulation. Vibrators are also great toys for foreplay between couples and can really get your motor running!!!

-External Stimulation
Ladies looking for clitoral stimulation and guys that want some testicular stimulation may be interested in an external devise. These are vibrators that are meant purely for topical use. Love eggs, or bullets, are small, usually cylindrical, devices meant to stroke the clitoris or testicles and can induce or intensify orgasm. Bullets come in many different options including a self contained, batter operated models, models that have a cord to the battery pack and function controls, and wireless models. Bullets tend to be small (around one-inch in length) and may have multiple functions or just one or two.

-Internal Stimulation
For those interested in internal stimulation there are products designed to feel like the real thing, cylindrical models, wands and even abstract designs from which to choose. There are models that plug into the wall, some that run on batteries, and others that are recharged through a stand or USB cable.

-Combination Stimulation
Combination vibrators are most commonly referred to as a "rabbit" vibrator. This is because not only is there an internal device that can thrust, spin, pulse, or any other function options, but also has an external device that is commonly seen covered by a sleeve imitating an animal shape. Designed to both fill the vagina and stimulate the clitoris, rabbit vibrators are popular with many women.